The P.U.S.H. Framework for Objection Handling
The PUSH Framework - Each letter in P.U.S.H. represents a key step in overcoming objections and closing the sale.
(Because if you truly believe in your offer, you owe it to your audience to push—gently, but firmly.)
When handling objections, remember: People don’t reject you—they hesitate because of uncertainty. The P.U.S.H. Framework helps you navigate their doubts and lead them to the right decision.
P – Permission to Push
Goal:
Get explicit consent to challenge their hesitation without making it feel like pressure.
Why This Works:
Sales resistance happens when people feel like they’re being forced into a decision. The moment they sense pressure, their defenses go up. That’s why you need to ask for permission before applying pressure—because when people feel in control, they’re more open to what you have to say.
Think of it this way: Pushing without permission feels aggressive. Pushing with permission feels like guidance.
By openly stating your intent to challenge them (in a respectful way), you achieve two things:
- You lower their defenses – Instead of resisting, they’re now mentally prepared to engage with you.
- You create ethical urgency – When someone grants permission for you to push, they subconsciously accept that a decision is on the horizon.
How to Use It:
Before diving into handling objections, set the stage for an open and honest conversation.
Script Example:
"Hey, before we go further, I’d like your permission to challenge your thinking a little. My goal isn’t to pressure you, but to help you make the best decision. Would that be okay?"
🚀 Why This Works:
- It shifts the dynamic from "salesperson vs. prospect" to "trusted advisor vs. friend".
- It makes the conversation feel collaborative rather than confrontational.
- It preemptively neutralizes common objections like 'I don’t want to be pressured.'
Bonus Tactical Move: Setting Expectations Upfront
Before you even present your offer, make sure your prospect knows what to expect.
Expectation-Setting Script:
"At the end of this conversation, you’ll have everything you need to make a decision. My job is to help you see the value and answer your concerns. Does that sound fair?"
🚀 Why This Works:
- It eliminates stalling objections like "I need to think about it."
- It positions you as a leader guiding them to clarity.
- It gives them a sense of control over the decision-making process, reducing sales friction.
👉 Pro Tip: After getting permission to push, maintain an assertive yet empathetic tone. Your confidence reassures them that this is a safe space for making the right choice.
The Big Takeaway
If you push without permission, you risk triggering resistance. But if you ask first, you turn the conversation into a partnership rather than a pitch.
So before overcoming objections, always get permission to push. 🔥
U – Understand Their Fear
Goal:
Identify the real reason behind their hesitation.
Why This Works:
Most objections aren’t logical—they’re emotional.
People like to think they make rational buying decisions, but in reality, fear is the biggest obstacle to saying yes. It’s not just about the price or the timing—it’s about self-doubt, uncertainty, and fear of making the wrong choice.
The truth?
- They’re afraid of wasting money.
- They’re afraid of failing.
- They’re afraid of looking stupid.
If you don’t uncover their true fear, you’ll waste time addressing surface-level objections that don’t actually matter.
Your job? Find out what’s really stopping them—and remove that fear.
How to Use It:
You can’t guess their fear. You have to ask.
Use direct questions to uncover their hesitation:
💬 "What’s holding you back from saying yes today?"
🔎 Why this works: Opens the door for them to share their true concern.
💬 "If price wasn’t an issue, would this be the right decision for you?"
🔎 Why this works: Separates financial concerns from real doubts about the solution. If they still hesitate, the issue isn’t price—it’s something deeper.
💬 "What concerns do you have about this working for you?"
🔎 Why this works: Gets to the self-doubt issue. Many people don’t think they can succeed, even if the product is perfect.
Bonus Tactical Move: Reframing Their Thinking
Sometimes, people hesitate because they’ve never consciously connected their past fears to their past successes.
💡 Reframe their mindset by asking:
"Has there ever been a time when you hesitated on something but later realized it was the best decision you ever made?"
🚀 Why This Works:
- It shifts their focus from fear to confidence.
- It forces them to recall a personal success story.
- It creates a logical connection between their past bravery and their current hesitation.
👉 Pro Tip: When they share a success story, reinforce it:
"Exactly! And you wouldn’t have had that win if you had let fear stop you. This decision today is no different."
The Big Takeaway
People don’t say "no" because of the product—they say "no" because of fear.
If you can identify that fear and help them overcome it, you’ll close more deals—not by selling harder, but by guiding them through their hesitation. 🔥
S – Show, Don’t Tell
Goal:
Demonstrate value instead of just explaining it.
Why This Works:
People don’t buy words—they buy proof of transformation.
You can tell someone all day long that your product or service is amazing, but if they can’t see it working, they won’t believe it.
Think about it:
- You don’t buy a car based on a brochure—you take it for a test drive.
- You don’t believe a diet works until you see before-and-after photos.
- You don’t trust a business until you see real testimonials from happy customers.
The moment someone sees proof, something clicks. They think:
"Wait… this could actually work for me."
If you want to convert hesitant buyers, stop talking—start showing.
How to Use It:
Use visual proof and real-world examples to eliminate doubt and increase belief in your offer.
1. Case Studies & Social Proof
💬 "Let me show you how Sarah was in your exact situation and what happened after she started."
🔎 Why this works:
- Prospects see themselves in someone else’s success.
- It builds trust by proving real results.
🔥 Pro Tip:
Show transformations through testimonials, screenshots, video clips, or side-by-side comparisons.
2. Live Demonstration
💬 "Here’s a quick look at how this will actually work for you."
🔎 Why this works:
- Removes uncertainty by showing exactly what they’re getting.
- Helps them visualize using it in their own life/business.
🔥 Pro Tip:
- If you sell a product: Offer a free trial or walkthrough demo.
- If you sell coaching/consulting: Give a small free win during the conversation.
3. The Cost of Staying the Same
💬 "What’s the cost of staying where you are versus making this change today?"
🔎 Why this works:
- Forces them to compare the pain of inaction vs. the reward of taking action.
- Makes them realize that waiting has a bigger downside than investing.
🔥 Pro Tip:
Ask them:
"If you do nothing today, where will you be six months from now?"
Bonus Tactical Move: Show the Consequences of Saying No
Some people need to see not just what they’ll gain—but what they’ll lose if they don’t act.
💡 Example Script:
"I totally understand. Let’s fast forward six months. If you don’t take action today, where do you think you’ll be? What will change? If nothing changes, will you be okay with that?"
🚀 Why This Works:
- It forces them to confront the reality of staying stuck.
- It shifts their mindset from avoiding a decision to avoiding regret.
👉 Pro Tip: After they acknowledge the risk of waiting, follow up with:
"Now, if you take action today, where could you be six months from now?"
This makes them see that taking the leap isn’t as scary as staying where they are.
The Big Takeaway
People don’t trust words. They trust evidence.
- If you show proof, they believe.
- If you show success stories, they relate.
- If you show what happens if they do nothing, they realize the cost of hesitation.
If you want people to say "yes," stop telling—start showing. 🔥
H – Handle & Help Close
Goal:
Directly handle objections and guide prospects toward a confident decision.
Why This Works:
Most objections aren’t actual barriers—they’re just hesitations disguised as concerns.
If a prospect is still talking to you, it means they’re interested—but something is holding them back.
- It’s not about money.
- It’s not about timing.
- It’s not about needing to think.
What’s really happening? They’re unsure.
- “Will this work for me?”
- “Can I trust myself to follow through?”
- “Am I making the right choice?”
Your job is not to convince them.
Your job is to help them get out of their own way.
How to Use It:
1. Identify Their Specific Objection
💬 Ask directly: “What’s really stopping you?”
🔎 Why this works:
- Cuts through the surface excuses.
- Forces them to confront their true hesitation.
🔥 Pro Tip: When they give you a vague answer like “I don’t know,” follow up with:
"If you did know, what would it be?"
2. Address It with Logic & Emotion
Once you uncover the hesitation, don’t argue with it—neutralize it.
💬 Use logic: “Would it help if we did X to make this easier?”
🔎 Why this works:
- Gives them an easy “yes” moment.
- Moves the conversation from hesitation → solution mode.
🔥 Pro Tip: Frame solutions in a way that eliminates their risk and fear.
Example:
"What if we offered a 30-day guarantee? That way, you can experience the full value before committing long-term."
3. Handle Common Objections with Confidence
❌ "It’s too expensive."
✅ “I get it. But compared to what? What’s the long-term cost of not doing this?”
🔎 Why this works:
- Shifts the focus from price → cost of inaction.
- Helps them see that staying stuck is more expensive.
🔥 Pro Tip: Add a direct comparison:
"If you don’t invest now, how much will this problem cost you over the next year?"
❌ "I need to think about it."
✅ “Of course! What exactly do you need to think about? Maybe I can help with that now.”
🔎 Why this works:
- Puts them on the spot to clarify what’s missing.
- Helps them realize they already have enough information.
🔥 Pro Tip: Add urgency:
"If you’re 90% sure this is right for you, what’s stopping you from making the decision now instead of later?"
❌ "I need to talk to my spouse/business partner."
✅ “Great! Let’s get them on the phone right now so we can discuss it together.”
🔎 Why this works:
- Eliminates the stalling tactic.
- Positions you as someone who wants to make sure everyone is on board.
🔥 Pro Tip: If they refuse, ask:
"If it were just your decision, would you move forward today?"
If they say yes, the spouse/partner is just an excuse. Respond with:
"Then let’s figure out the best way to present this to them together."
The Big Takeaway
Objections aren’t rejections—they’re just hesitations that need clarity.
✔️ Identify the real objection.
✔️ Address it with logic and emotion.
✔️ Guide them to a confident yes.
When handled correctly, the prospect won’t just feel like they were “sold” on something…
They’ll feel like they made the best decision for themselves. 🔥
Bonus Tactical Move: The "Permission to Push" Close
Why This Works:
Some prospects get stuck in hesitation mode even when they know they should move forward.
They need a gentle but firm nudge—not pressure, but a structured close that:
✔️ Reaffirms their goals
✔️ Removes hesitation
✔️ Gets them to commit with confidence
The “Permission to Push” Close is a strategic way to guide them to a yes without making them feel forced.
How to Use It:
1. Ask for Directness
💬 "Can I be direct with you?"
🔎 Why this works:
- Earns respect—people appreciate honesty.
- Shifts control—it’s no longer a pitch, it’s a conversation.
🔥 Pro Tip: If they say yes (which they almost always do), they’re subconsciously giving you permission to challenge their hesitation.
2. Empathize & Validate Their Hesitation
💬 "I completely understand where you’re coming from. I’ve had this same hesitation before."
🔎 Why this works:
- Reduces defensiveness—they feel understood.
- Shows you’ve been in their shoes—which builds trust.
🔥 Pro Tip: Add a quick personal story:
"Before I made my first big investment, I hesitated too. But looking back, it was one of the best decisions I ever made."
3. Reaffirm Their Goals
💬 "You told me earlier you wanted [desired result]. Do you still want that?"
🔎 Why this works:
- Makes them recommit to their own goal.
- Reminds them why they were interested in the first place.
🔥 Pro Tip: If they hesitate, ask:
"Has anything changed about your goal since we started this conversation?"
👉 This forces them to acknowledge they still want it.
4. Give Them an Easy “Yes” Moment
💬 "If I could make this decision easier for you, would you want me to?"
🔎 Why this works:
- Subconsciously positions you as a helper, not a seller.
- Gives them a low-pressure way to say yes.
🔥 Pro Tip: If they say yes, follow up with:
"Great! What’s the one thing that’s making you hesitate right now?"
👉 This leads them straight into solving their own objection.
5. Make Them Commit to the Action
💬 "Let’s do this. You have nothing to lose, and I’ll personally make sure you get the value you need. Sound good?"
🔎 Why this works:
- Uses confidence and certainty to remove their last bit of doubt.
- The phrase “You have nothing to lose” reassures them.
🔥 Pro Tip:
If they still hesitate, ask:
"What would need to happen for you to feel 100% comfortable moving forward today?"
👉 This removes the final resistance.
The Big Takeaway:
The "Permission to Push" Close isn’t about forcing a decision—it’s about guiding someone to a choice they already want to make.
✔️ You ask for permission.
✔️ You validate their hesitation.
✔️ You remind them of their goal.
✔️ You give them an easy “yes” moment.
✔️ You close with confidence.
👉 This shifts the conversation from resistance → logical commitment → emotional close.
🔥 Use this, and watch hesitant prospects turn into confident buyers. 🔥
Final Thought - Push with Purpose
The P.U.S.H. Framework isn’t about manipulation—it’s about helping people make a decision that benefits them.
- If they truly need your solution, don’t let fear stop them from investing in themselves.
- Your job isn’t to convince—it’s to guide, educate, and empower.
So next time you hear an objection, don’t freeze—P.U.S.H. 🔥